Mistakes that I made while setting up my Goals
Summary:
1. Set up simple and easy to achieve goals, that are easy to track like "I will spend 15 mins reading good blogs every day/weekdays(mon-fri)/weekends(sat-sun) for 1/2/3 weeks".
2. Do not setup broad range goals right away unless you understand that it will take pretty long time to accomplish it.
3. Do not setup goals to impress others or self (unless you are really excited about it)
Details:
- The Goals were very broad range. So, that made the goals very hard to achieve it.
you probably will have no idea or vague ideas about how to improve it.
You will have to rely on your current level of thinking and google searches to
figure out what is needed.
- Some of the Goals were based on a final result or outcome. These outcomes were hard to achieve. (Yeah, I understand this is not a mistake for every kinds of Goals)
My Insight: I did not understood that some of the goals could take a long time
to accomplish. So i got discouraged early seeing not much progress.
Some of the Goals should have been split in smaller goals, for some of them
the expected outcome was out of my control, as it was depended on others.
the expected outcome was out of my control, as it was depended on others.
- Some of the Goals were setup to impress others or myself. These Goals did not spark any motivation within me, so i did not found any drive to accomplish it.
My Insight: Do not trouble yourself by setting these kinds of Goals.
- I did not setup simple and easy or extremely small Goals that would have been easy to do.
My Experience: I will tell you later, once i actually do it... :)
Update: I actually tried it and it seems to work perfect for me. I have now extended the duration of the already achieved goals so as to stretch myself.
Update: I actually tried it and it seems to work perfect for me. I have now extended the duration of the already achieved goals so as to stretch myself.
- I did not change my goals once i hit a roadblock. I made up those goals so i could have easily changed it, dropped it and made it simpler but i did not assuming it as a taboo. I don't need to be scared of myself.
My Experience: Persistence is the key to succeeding at your goals.
- Cool Quote: Accept that you have to do daily chores or mundane task and you should not try avoiding it. Your only choice is to either enjoy doing it or dread about it.